updated 9/23/07

Hi! Just a word from the one responsible for all these pages!

My name is Kathy, my friends just call me Kat.  I live in Aurora .. a very small town in northeast MN. I am 49 yrs old. Happily married to Dale

for almost 25 yrs, mother of 3 - a son, Brian who is 31.
He developes software.

and 2 daughters, Jennifer - 29

and Elizabeth, 23 and is married to Jason...

Beth and Jason lived in Vegas for 5 years and
have recently moved back home to Minnesota!

I also have 5 grandchildren! 

Dominic, 12 who loves music and has a heart of gold.

Brian who is 9, who is extremely intelligent and is a smart ass but you can't argue with him because he is usually RIGHT!

I have been raising Dominic and Brian for the last 9 years.

Kaylah, my beautiful oldest granddaughter who is 11
and is fun to go SHOPPING with.

Brittney, my cute, cuddly, SPOILED youngest granddaughter
who is 4 years.

Zacky.. who is absolutely 100% BOY! He is adorable
and also 4  right now!

Zander.. An absolute perfect 10 month old!!

I live in a house full of testosterone! Right now it is me, my husband Dale, grandsons Dominic and Brian and my Son,   I guess you could say, I'm out numbered! So, if you see some grrrrr male pages on my site you know why! LOL. I do try to even it out with some grrrrr female pages too tho! The Sexes

I started this site about 11 years ago for ME. A friend suggested I write about my abuse as a child and that started me going! Eventually I added all the other pages. I enjoy the pages and music and I love that most everyone who sees my site enjoys it too. I try to make a variety of pages to please just about anyone. I think I have accomplished this being I am currently getting over 22 million hits on my site per year now! (Thank you all!!)

I have met many many wonderful people online.. it's amazing! (the internet) People come and go.. some will be friends for life I know. Some.. have passed on.. and I miss them.

95% of my site I have done on my own. It's an awful lot of work. I have much of myself in these pages. I pay for the web space the site takes up. The site is taking up over 2000 mgs of space on the internet. It costs money.. so does the Minibite URL. I have had offers from various people on the net to purchase my site.. in whole.. or just a section or 2 and even to purchase the minibite.com name. I have refused all offers and will continue to do so.. ummm unless someone wants to pay off my mortgage???? Hehehe. Really tho, it's too much of ME and would be like selling my soul. Some friends have helped me here and there.. with pics, music and poetry. I recently added the recipe section I am doing with a crazy canuck who also has a LOT of poetry on my site. (wildthing - aka Tom Hutchinson)

If there is a certain page or section of my site that offends you, click the page off. Please do not send me an email saying its offensive or I am wrong for putting it on my site.. it is MY site.. and I put on it what I want to .. its a personal CHOICE and my right to free speech. I have had people DEMAND I take a page down or a song off.. and frankly, it makes me laugh. I have even been threatened!!  If ya don't like it.. DON"T GO BACK TO IT! I have never pushed my religious beliefs.. my politics or anything else on anyone. I bet not any of you even know what religion I am or my political party!

Please don't get me wrong.. If there is something wrong on my site.. a word spelled wrong.. a fact is wrong.. music not working.. etc.. please.. I want to know these things. I LOVE hearing what my 'viewers' think of my pages... good or bad. BUT... If you can't hear any of my music, it is not my site.. it is YOUR machine. I have plain wavs on my site.. heard thru mostly MEDIA PLAYER. REAL PLAYER plays RA's (or RAMS as most know it as) and usually messes up when it comes to wavs. I use wavs cuz more than half of the internet can hear em. If you can't hear the music make media player your default player .. you may also have to update the player from the Microsoft downloads page.

I have a sign-up button on my site for people who want updates. That button is SOMETIMES gone . Mostly because I can't always keep up with the requests I get! THANKS!! I have had a few send me emails askin me "who the hell are you and why are you sending me this shit???" LMAO... these are from people who signed up for the pages and now they don't remember.. no prob.. poof em off the list. What I find amazing is that some of them actually sign up again the next day. Go figure!!!

Requests.. WOW! As you can imagine, I get a lot of requests for pages.. using certain songs. Doesn't help to put up an 'I'm not taking requests at this time' message.. lol. If you do send a request.. I cannot promise it will be done. Usually I make a page as a certain song or picture hits me. I do keep the requests in a folder tho and sometimes will go to the folder if I want to do something and don't have anything particular in mind. Lately though I've been pretty much redoing pages that my server has lost from time to time.. now I've learned to backup my site on my hard drive and CDs!

Oh... you can find me on myspace now! Add me as a friend but if ya don't talk to me I will delete you! LOL

Whewwwwwwwww!! OK.. I'm done! Love you all.. and thanks...
Huggggggggg

Kat

Read this.. from a SUPER friend!