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My Apologies To Canada

 

I received this from a friend I talk to who lives in Canada. I got it about 11pm last night. I scanned over it.. thought, "Ok..  But what does it have to do with me??" Then I went to bed. I laid there, and couldn't put my mind to rest. This email my friend sent me kept popping up in my thoughts! I got up and went back to my email and took my time reading this time. Canada.

I Remember when the terrorists attacked my good ol' USA on 911. WOW!
What a blow for my country! I turned on my computer and had many, many
messages waiting for me. Friends, Family.. everyone watching in horror. I
remember that every single one of my Canadian friends sent me email throughout the entire thing.. offering me and my country sympathy. They were the first ones to do so! I remember thinking to myself later... when it came down to the numbers killed from each country, "We were ALL attacked. Not just the USA!" Now I feel ashamed.


Why? Because .. did I get on the puter and send my Canadian friends condolences for the loved ones they had lost?? No. I didn't even think to do so. To me we were all grieving.. I know I talked to my Husband and family and friends about how we can always depend on Canada and a few other countries to back us up. Did I get on the puter and tell my Canadian friends, 'Thank you?' No.. I did not. Did my Country do anything? Say anything? Other than just acknowledge on TV they were on our side? I don't know. I don't remember seeing or hearing anything about it!

I remember watchin the news.. when the 4 Canadia soldiers were accidentally killed by our US warplane. I hurt for them. Thought, OMG! Not Canada! I didn't offer anything then either. Yes, I feel ashamed.

Last night after reading the email again, I thought.. ok.. Nothing I can do about it! I slept poorly. It was still on my mind when I woke up this morning. I decided, Kat, you're an idiot! There is TOO something you can do! I have one of the biggest personal websites online! I get over 3.5 million hits on all of my pages.. a year! A LOT of the people who come to my website are from Canada! So with this in mind, I sit here now, Offering my Canadian neighbors my apologies. I cannot apologize for my country. Just for myself.

You are APPRECIATED! You are LOVED! And I, along with most other
Americans should have told this to our Canadian Neighbors many, many times!
I know many people from Canada thanks to the internet. Dozens! Other than one, I have never met a Canadian I didn't like! I've yet to meet a 'rude' one. The people I know are very warm and sincere. Funny, appreciative and honest. They are part of my Family. I guess I just don't think of them as anything but friends and family.


This is the email I recieved...

 

LONDON - Until the deaths last week of four Canadian soldiers
accidentally killed by a U.S. warplane in Afghanistan, probably
almost no one outside their home country had been aware that
Canadian troops were deployed in the region.

And as always, Canada will now bury its dead, just as the rest of
the world as always will forget its sacrifice, just as it always  forgets nearly everything Canada ever does.

It seems that Canada's historic mission is to come to the selfless
aid both of its friends and of complete strangers, and then, once the crisis is over, to be well and truly ignored. Canada is the perpetual wallflower that stands on the edge of the hall, waiting for someone to come and ask her for a dance. A fire breaks out, she risks life and limb to rescue her fellow dance-goers, and suffers serious injuries. But when the hall is repaired and the dancing resumes, there is Canada, the wallflower still, while those she once helped glamorously cavort across the floor, blithely neglecting her yet again.

That is the price Canada pays for sharing the North American
continent with the United States, and for being a selfless friend of
Britain in two global conflicts. For much of the 20th century, Canada was torn in two different directions: It seemed to be a part of the old world, yet had an address in the new one, and that divided identity ensured that it never fully got the gratitude it deserved.

Yet its purely voluntary contribution to the cause of freedom in two
world wars was perhaps the greatest of any democracy. Almost 10% of Canada's entire population of seven million people served in the armed forces during the First World War, and nearly 60,000 died. The great Allied victories of 1918 were spearheaded by Canadian troops, perhaps the most capable soldiers in the entire British order of battle.

Canada was repaid for its enormous sacrifice by downright neglect,
its unique contribution to victory being absorbed into the popular memory as somehow or other the work of the "British." The Second World War provided a re-run.

The Canadian navy began the war with a half dozen vessels, and
ended up policing nearly half of the Atlantic against U-boat attack.

More than 120 Canadian warships participated in the Normandy
landings, during which 15,000 Canadian soldiers went ashore on
D-Day alone. Canada finished the war with the third-largest navy
and the fourth-largest air force in the world.

The world thanked Canada with the same sublime indifference as it
had the previous time. Canadian participation in the war was
acknowledged in film only if it was necessary to give an American
actor a part in a campaign in which the United States had clearly not participated -- a touching scrupulousness which, of course, Hollywood has since abandoned, as it has any notion of a separate Canadian identity.

So it is a general rule that actors and filmmakers arriving in Hollywood keep their nationality -- unless, that is, they are Canadian. Thus Mary Pickford, Walter Huston, Donald Sutherland, Michael J. Fox, William Shatner, Norman Jewison, David Cronenberg and Dan Aykroyd have in the popular perception become American, and Christopher Plummer, British. It is as if, in  the very act of becoming famous, a Canadian ceases to be Canadian, unless she is Margaret Atwood, who is as unshakably Canadian as a moose, or Celine Dion, for whom Canada has proved quite unable to find any takers.

Moreover, Canada is every bit as querulously alert to the  achievements of its sons and daughters as the rest of the world is completely unaware of them.

The Canadians proudly say of themselves -- and are unheard by anyone
else -that 1% of the world's population has provided 10% of the world's peacekeeping forces. Canadian soldiers in the past half century have been the greatest peacekeepers on Earth -- in 39 missions on UN mandates, and six on non-UN peacekeeping duties, from Vietnam to East Timor, from Sinai to Bosnia.

Yet the only foreign engagement that has entered the popular
non-Canadian imagination was the sorry affair in Somalia, in which
out-of-control paratroopers murdered two Somali infiltrators.
Their regiment was then disbanded in disgrace -- a uniquely Canadian act of self-abasement for which, naturally, the Canadians received no international credit.

So who today in the United States knows about the stoic and selfless
friendship its northern neighbour has given it in Afghanistan?

Rather like Cyrano de Bergerac, Canada repeatedly does honourable
things for honourable motives, but instead of being thanked for it, it remains something of a figure of fun.

It is the Canadian way, for which Canadians should be proud, yet such honour comes at a high cost.

This week, four more grieving Canadian families knew that cost all
too tragically well.

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